THE ULTIMATE
- AARUSHI CHAUDHARYSometimes, it is so complicated to make sense out of everything that is happening in your life, especially if you are in your teenage years. It almost feels like you can’t make good decisions anymore, which is NOT your fault. This sense of failure or sometimes self- criticism may be different and come at different intervals of time to every individual. But at this point, you will find a lot of people telling you how to do things and what to do and maybe you feeling this way is not viable. WE listen to them, and when it does not work out, we become downhearted and hopeless. Well, what could possibly the reason be? Why are the things that you are doing not working out? I would not simply try to build conundrums here, I’d rather write what I think. A lot of things that we are thinking right now or later will this day, may not be good, which makes us think that we are unintelligible. And when an elder reaches out to you, they may or may not be able to understand you completely, but they are trying to help to you out in a way. Maybe a little negotiation from your side might help in solving the problem. You could sit with them and think your things through. Talking and putting your feelings forward is a much better option than listening to people who don’t try to listen to you and have unbelievably high-spirited things to say.
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- Kushagra Verma What is love? By book it is basically an intense feeling of deep affection. Some argue that self love is basically the best form of love. Others say that the very idea of "self love" is necessary to stay happy. One can not expect others to love them unless they start loving themselves. By "self love" I in no way want to promote the idea of "self-obsession". Self obsession is in fact quite lethal and causes immense damage both mentally and physically.
We have to understand a few things over here, EVERYONE IS BEAUTIFUL IN THEIR OWN WAY and NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO MOCK YOU. We as humans differ in many ways from each other and we have to start accepting ourselves the way we are but that does not mean that we should stop aiming at becoming better people. We can become better people if we make ourselves both physically and mentally strong. There are quite a few ways in which you can start loving yourself. In my opinion, the best way is to become the person you admire. When you become the person you are satisfied in being, that is when you fall for yourself. It is quite evident that to become the person you admire, you have to start working towards it. Any change does not come without any kind of work. So you must have proper goals in your life, you must have a proper direction in your life and most importantly, YOU HAVE TO FALL IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF. - Khushi MakhijaDepression is a word that we are hearing around so easily having. We see One other person suffering from depression around us. From a bad day to one’s inability to live is described as depression. Depression slowly take over one’s purpose to live. First from unnoticeable changes leading to bigger changes. Depression put one is at a verge of where everything seems to feel so hard. It creates a sense of negativity and one feels so low that they stop enjoying everything. Depression reduces the happiness hormones in our life. It put ones at a place where we think of suicide and no other option is left. Depression is a reaction which no one have ever imagined before it opens various courses of actions like anxiety, stress and no self believe. It creates lack of self believe, confidence and one become strict on themselves and compare their lives from others’ lives. some adults mislead their lives and follow the path of drugs. Drug addiction means ‘developing the habit of taking intoxicants. In the materialistic world today, where man is burdened with worries, drug addiction has become a fashion as well as a practice. According to a recent report, more than one and half a million people lose their lives by these drugs every year. The life of a drug-addict becomes a hell. The person feels physically wrecked, morally degraded and mentally bankrupt. The person addicted to drugs finds it impossible to resist the craving and loses his/her mental stability and cool. People might turn to drug abuse for several reasons, depending on their financial condition, social status, and other factors. The rich and affluent might start it for fun, the depressed and distorted might take it as a relief, while the poor may start drug abuse to lessen their grief. Sadly, the drug may let you feel temporary joy or relief but that soon fades with time, making you crave more for the drug. It is a vicious cycle that will get you addicted and having an extremely degrading effect on your mental and physical health. Drug and Depression both can devastate the world. We can tell our well-wishers or caring one for help they can council and can help one suffering from these problems.
- Kushagra VermaDuring the colonial rule, there were a number of high class royal English
schools who were known for their "unorthodox" methods of teaching. 70 years hence independence and the dethroning of colonial rule, the authorities have understood the need to bring a change in the existing Indian Education System. All of us are aware that this change had to occur, the only factor in play was the time factor, basically how soon this change is brought up. The existing system consists of a lot of mugging up and the examinations are based on the ability to memorize and not on the ability of knowledge, thus violating the essence of examinations on the very first place. This change will emphasize the need of practical knowledge and vocationalisation. How come is it that despite being a country of such academic achievers, our country is still technologically lagged. The reason is simple, it cant provide a foundation where students can research, study what they want, specialize in certain skills. Our students wish to go to abroad to pursue studies and settle because our country cant fulfill their needs. With the NEP 2020, our country will give rise to students who are both skillful, academically sound and those who wish to do something for India. Our country will lay a foundation in the near future for students so that they can work and study in India and help it become the most desirable country in the world. Moreover, it wont just be an educational change, but more of a mental change. - Bhavyaa Vashist and Krishvi Jain“It’s better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction.” - Diane Grant
We teens always think of compete with others. But while competing, we tend to forget our true selves. Competition isn’t bad but winning that competition by not being yourself is inadequate. Peer Pressure is one of the most common observation made in teens, why is that so? Just because we want to be better than others or the thought that what will they think about us if we didn’t do that specific thing. Peer pressure makes us do some unacceptable things like going in a relationship just to show that you have a reputation among teenagers (for some people), lying about the things you have never done and being spoilt from inside and out just to have a high school legend title. We get lost in the world because of the pressure and find it difficult to go back on the right path. But nothing is impossible if you really want to change. Teen life is to make mistakes and find yourself. But, never regret your choices. It is what makes you what you are. "A perfect person is flawed and a flawed person is perfect." Don’t get scared. Nothing is permanent and people forget when they get the better version. Always remember, you are the best version of your true self. You don't need to copy others. These teen years come and go but the difficulties we face makes us ready for future challenges and if we face it by being courageous. believe me, we are unstoppable. We haven’t seen the real world yet but we will and to make a difference in that world we have to start by making the difference today. - Krishvi and SaanviHigh School, or should I say a Court? It is the very place where everyday judgments are passed. Based on how you look, how you conduct yourself, and the list can go on and on.
High School Star must seem an obligation to you now, but there are pros and cons to every situation. Having people look up to you does not involve being the most popular student. It is far more profound. Being someone else is not how you gain respect. It is just a façade, which will be removed eventually (regardless of how surpassing we think ourselves to be at lying to others). In this society, people respect the character and a cheerful attitude the most. Your smile is your logo. Your personality is your visiting card, and how others feel after an experience with you is your trademark. Most people judge quickly (though every single one will deny this fact😉). Don’t lose yourself because some are biased. A quick word of advice for all those people who believe that being a high school star is everything, surviving high school is not a goal. Nor is it a necessity. It is a fact that each one of us has a hidden talent, ready to be unveiled. You just need to have faith in yourself. This small step will be more than enough. As long as you believe IN YOURSELF. - Krishvi JainHow frequently do we hear from our parents, our mentors, people whom we admire, “Of course you can do this! I know you! ”? Basically, every day.
Most people tend to perceive this in the wrong way. Instead of getting boosted by the hopes, fear clouds their view. The dread of letting the people they love down. Fear of losing trust. Their doubt is immobilizing them. It tries to control their physical and mental strength, ceasing them to explore. For them, it becomes excruciating and pressurizing. People conduce to expect you to behave in a precise way. Whether they predict your success or failure, it adds the same level of restraint. But this is neither your peer’s intention nor should this be your perception. God gave us life, not expecting us to add experiences to our life but make it by adding experience after experience like we add steps while building a ladder. Everyone has fantasies they wish to be real. Darkness may surround it or sunrise may be awaiting. No one knows, and can't expect the answer to be invariable from their aspirations. Quitting just because you think you can’t live up to the expectations? It doesn’t make much sense to me. When people trust you, they don’t mean you to feel burdened. They want you to get motivated. They strive to turn the mirror in your direction. You. That’s the person they know will never quit. You are allowed to be tired, allowed to change, allowed to rest. But giving up? This is not the answer to our challenges. Whenever you are about to quit, just remember, someone in this world looks up to you. They do not expect you to be perfect. They just want you to be the best version of yourself. And everything will be alright 😊. यह दुनिया नहीं भोली
हमारी तरह खेल यह सब जानती यहाँ तो आपस में कलेश और दिखावे की शांति है कोई लूटे धन, कोई लूटे चैन भले से भला आदमी हो रखा बेचैन। आँखों मैं नमी और होटो पे मुस्कुराहट लेकर इंसान तू क्या जताता है, इस टूटे दिल को बार बार क्यों सहलाता है। मान ले मेरी बात ऐसे घुट घुट के मत रोया कर, तू बस अपने सपनो के बीज बोया कर। जान ले यह बात कोई भी न रहेगा तेरे साथ, जब कोई भी तुझे समझ न पायेगा, तब घनघोर अंधेरा छायेगा। फिर तू पत्थर सा बन जाएगा, और सब सह जाएगा, तब तू सब समझ जायेगा और होने अंदर की मशाल जलाएगा। - Aryan Gupta थे लाला एक बड़े मोटे, खाते पीते थे कद में छोटे, घूम घूम पार्क के चक्कर लगते, पहुँचते ही घर राजा बन जाते। पसीनो से ज़्यादा थे खाना खाते, फिर बेचकर घोड़े झट से सो जाते, सोते सोते खराटे थे मरते, खरटो से घर सर पर उठाते, सुबह होते ही फिर उठ जाते, बार बार पतले होने की चिंता उन्हें सताती थी, मोटा मोटा कहके क्यूँकि पत्नी उन्हें सताती थी। एक दिन लाला को गुस्सा आया, अपना दिमाग खूब दौड़ाया, अगले दिन एक treadmill ले आया, उस treadmill को खूब चलाया। 15 दिन मैं 5 किलो घटाया, 5 किलो घटाकर खुद को पतला पाया, फिर खुश होकर एक रसगुल्ला खाया, मन बोला बड़ा मज़ा आया। फिर लाला ने दूसरा उठाया, दूसरा उठाते ही मैं ललचाया, आँखे बंद करके मन को समझाया, आँखे खोलते ही रसगुल्ले को गायब पाया। सोचने लगे क्या यहाँ हैं भूत-प्रेत का साया, फिर पता चला रामू ने था रसगुल्ला खाया, तब था लाला होश में आया। - Aryan Gupta |
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